I AM NO LONGER THE DANCING QUEEN! 😢
It was my eighteenth birthday yesterday. A day I wasn’t really looking forward to.
First of all, I had four tests (in the week) to prepare for, which is also the reason I’ve been MIA, and the stress of it all, although I don’t show it, was getting to me. However, that being said, I had the best day! Since it was a school day, I got a lot of ‘Happy Birthday’s and messages and birthday snapchat stories because that’s how our generation show love. And my friends made it such a great day.
But, as I promised from a previous post, I’m going to explain why I didn’t want to turn eighteen.
DISCLAIMER: I’m not saying any of the following is relatable and about all adults, I just felt like me, being eighteen, means I’m more prone to these things.
First of all, being an adult tends to be associated with maturity and responsibility. I, on the other hand, am a very weird, energetic person in real life. I do weird crazy things. Being an adult means I can no longer blame that behaviour on the fact I am a child. This is sad news. I still have the face of a twelve year old, though, so I might pass as a child.
Making friends is easier when you’re a child because you’re in school practically everyday. I still have another year in school but still! I have university either next year or the year after and although there will be people there to talk to, I feel like it might be harder to make friends. I am a social person and will take initiative in situations like that but it’s still daunting.
I used to get stuff for free. NOW I HAVE TO PAY. For example, I have to pay for eye care, dental care and probably a bunch of other stuff I don’t know about. That’s actually a little bit of a lie because I still get eye and dental care for free since I’m in full time education but my point is, being eighteen means I have to pay for stuff. My parents are making me pay for my phone bill. ☹ I do like to be in control, though, so maybe it’s a good thing.
I hate the idea of being grown up. I don’t want to grow up. This ties in with the acting weird point because I don’t want to be completely mature and ‘normal’. I also don’t want to worry constantly and get so involved in money issues.
I have to make big decisions and there’s not much leeway for my indecisive ways, right now. I can’t just change my mind tomorrow and decide I want to be an astronaut, like you can do when you’re a child. I know that it’s never too late to do what you want (unless you’re on the brink of death, then I’m so sorry) but the way society works and the school system works, I feel pressured to make sure my whole life plan starts now and isn’t a failure.
I can go to prison for a criminal offence. This one’s going to be really difficult for me. 😬
Despite all of the negativity that’s been most of this post (sorry), I wanted to add a little bit of positivity because on the majority of occasions, I try my hardest to look on the bright side of things. 😄
- I can finally vote, which is important to me because I like to make my own decisions and have my say on things.
- I can serve jury duty, which is always fun, amirite?!
- I can get a tattoo. I actually want to get one of a semi colon!
- Ya girl gets paid more! A whole two pounds more. 💸
- I can make a will, which, again, is always fun!
- I can buy fireworks.
I can do a lot more important things but those are my top six.
Also, big announcement! I had my first legal alcoholic drink. It was dairy free almond milk Baileys. Dairy free because one of my best friends, who gave it to me, is vegan and is clearly respectful to the acne prone antichrist that is my skin. She also made me a vegan cake.
To end on a high note, eighteen isn’t that bad. AgE iS JuSt a NuMBeR…
-Shay
Happy Belated Birthday, girl! 😘🎉💖
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Thank you!! 😄
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Happy birthday, Shay!
If you were an old, overweight, racist white man living in the US then acting like an immature child could get you elected president. And you wouldn’t have to pay for anything! Kinda shows you how messed up things are.
Also, Bailey’s ist gut – especially in coffee. Welcome to a whole new world of wonderful things that can ruin your life (AKA alcohol).
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Thank you! And I love how every comment from you is about Trump! And thanks but is there a ticket out?
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Yea, maybe I should lay off the Trump disses for a while. Or not…
A ticket out of what? Alcohol? You could always choose not drink it. I’m not sure why you’d do that though.
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I mean, I’m not complaining about the Trump disses!
Yeah true, but it tastes better when you’re not allowed to drink it. XD
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Happy Birthday!
I, personally am always super excited for my birthdays because I really like getting gifts and seeing how many of my old friends actually remember it!
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Thank you!! And I got excited when I woke up and sad now it’s over but I dreaded the lead up! And yeah it’s nice to see who the good friends are 😂
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pRiSON iS jUsT a rOOm. Ayy happy 18th! You’re older than me even though we’re in the same grade! You should write more about your adventures as a legal.
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YeaH aND JusT A feW WorDs on YouR RecOrDS!
Thank you though!!! And haha, I will! XD (I’m older than most people in my year)
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I’m half a month late but happy birthday! I hope you’re having fun being 18, since you obviously love it so much
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I was supposed to say (it sent too early):
I’m half a month late but happy birthday! ❤ I hope you’re having fun being 18, since you obviously love being 18 so much that you made a post about it 😂
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Thank you! And I’m actually enjoying the freedom more now than I did when I wrote the post. XD
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That’s good then 😂❤
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You are such an insightful young person – I hope you embrace every age along the way with joy and enthusiasm. Cheers!
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Thank youu! 😀 I hope I do too.
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